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I have been away from home for almost six months. Throughout these six months, many things had happen. There are good ones and there are bad ones too. One of my closest girlfriends, Melanie, wrote me an email. In the email, she said ¡°Friends are really important¡distance help you realize that¡±. Talking about friends, I have many types of friends. There are friends whom I will talk almost day and night with her, there are friends whom I will talk endlessly with them when I only see them and yet not in msn or rather on phone. Just strange. And there are friends whom they will not call me for ages and suddenly a ring, we will just talk as though we have just spoken to each other just last week. And there are even friends whom I don¡¯t keep in touch and yet deep down in our hearts, we know we will be there for each other. There are many definitions of friendships. It all lies on how you look at it. Being abroad actually helps you realizes who are your true friends not only those who are far apart from you, and also those who are here with you. Ask people who are studying in overseas right now, I wouldn¡¯t make sweeping statements that ALL will say, but I would say MOST will say that, friends started to reveal their true self then. Needless to say, I do and had experienced this kinda thinggie. It has been settled and that is the end and final decision has been made. If you ask me, if we can turn back the time, how will I deal with this sort of things. I think I will just do the same thing all over again. There are quite a number of people say that I am pretty much a predictable person, and I agree at times, heehehehe, but sometimes the way I act may not be predictable at all. It was just last year and¡with the situation right now¡.I have no idea and couldn¡¯t be bothered with it anymore. Anyway, to me, it is an end and that¡¯s a fact. I am not sure are my actions affecting other people but that is my decision. This may be a very vague entry to some people but I can assure you that it is not at all to some people. |
| mel September 23, 2007 01:51 AM PDT It's true babe!! Living abroad helps u see things in a whole new different perspective..and u appreciate ppl around u better...And u grow to realise ... there are lots of fakers out there...And it's wen u know who ur true friends are and who u can rely on... That's life.. not everyone can get along with everyone and we can NEVER please EVERYONE... Just be true to yourself & those who are ur true friends will accept u unconditionally :) Muackz.. Love u loads...quick come back for girl talk ya | ||
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